WHY get married if you could get divorced? Why even date??? I just have serious fears of loving someone and them leaving me. How can I overcome it? Have you had to? I just don't want to get close to any woman. My parents aren't divorced but their relationship isn't perfect. I'm not sure if this is a normal fear for men. I would rather just have casual sex.
Well it is good you realize you have a problem. think you’ve been hurt and discouraged so much by previous experiences it has you doubting yourself. You feel that love will never come to you. But despite all your negative feelings toward relationships you still want one. You want to be loved. You want one woman that you can put all your energy into.
For six years I too felt this way. I doubted I would ever find anyone. I was convinced that I would forever be single. I think honestly you have to allow yourself some time to work up to a point where you ready to love again, and put yourself out there.
Relationships take work, trust and will never be perfect. The perfection comes from realizing that you may have an argument or difference of opinion, or even a fight but you come back together and love each other harder.
I am now loving without fear or caution. I know people can come and go but I don’t let that paralyze me anymore. It’s all apart of life and avoiding the hurt only leads to more pain, regret, and depression.